Ladies, what turns you on?

I bet you’ve heard this question so many times, some are aware of what the answer is while others are not so sure. But one thing is for sure, if you haven’t had an orgasm during sex, you need to get laid immediately cos all you’ve been doing is play around.

Sex is not a talent we were born with, we learn as time goes by, as it is said practice makes perfect but you have to be willing to go all out to experience it or make your partner experience it.

If your partner isn’t climaxing, you’re doing it wrong and when you’re doing it wrong, there’s a probability your partner would get someone else to do it right. So sit tight and get ready to be the man who always does it right. But ladies, even when your man ain’t around, you can always have a backup. How you say? Raise up your hands, yes, your fingers, those very fingers of yours are your side niggas anytime, so you should also get in position because I’m about to teach you just how well your fingers can be your Daddy too.

Orgasms are one of the best things to happen to mankind and what makes it even better is the fact that you can go into orgasm with the help of your own fingers. Surprised? Asides the sexual pleasure, it helps relieve you of stress and worries, and keeps you looking younger and fresher. If you think it’s false, give me a call when you’re done reading this piece and I will show you the way…..

1. center of gravity orgasm

This is probably the most popular type of orgasm The center of gravity is the spongy area above the vaginal wall also known as the Graffenberg spot. While some women can’t go into climax except through penetration, majority need this spot to be located so believe it or not, the center of gravity is here to stay. All you need do is apply pressure slowly as you make circular motions with your fingers, make sure you don’t stop till you have gotten what you want.Get your fingers wet, a lubricant can be Bae here as well if you don’t want to use the good old saliva. Guys, at this point, you can also throw in a couple of kisses down there to have your lady go from 0 to a 100 in seconds.

2. Breast/Nipple orgasm Ahan Ahan! Need I say more? I’m sure your nipples are hard by the mention alone but don’t worry, I’’ll give a proper breakdown for the benefit of all the Mr Wrong trying to make it right. Do you know that stimulation of the nipple activates a part of the brain known as the genital sensory cortex? I bet you didn’t. The nipple and brain are tied meaning the brain is also a sex organ. But I’m sure my Naija guys don’t slack in this particular department. Even if they don’t know other ways to make her orgasm, this one is programmed in them already.

Aproko News Reader post: First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.
Now to the reason behind the question titled above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and began to read posts on Aproko News. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.

So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks!

Unspoken Secrets to Blissful Relationship

Understanding how to make a Relationship last is one way to enrich our lives, knowing how to make a relationship last or work out well for us, is something we have all wondered about. Believe me all relationship go through diverse stages, so many up and downs. Times when you struggle to make it work, times when you feel really hurt and unbearable to leave and periods of bad signals etc

So the questions is, why does some relationship scale through or seems to travel through the highs and lows, far better than other's, why do some make it through the roughest times and even come out waxing stronger than before while others disintegrate at the very slightest sign of discomfort or trouble.

Below are tips on how to create a strong relationship

So many relationship, once the hit the rough patch they seem to be unresolved, people need advice to keep them going. And many still can't work out what it is, that is wrong in their relationship even if its worth keeping without knowing the best is to resist the anger,distress or the feeling of loneliness they must have felt and manage to work it out again, until the whole mess is in the past and it's great again.

Below are twenty safeguard to make your relationship all smiley and lovable.


1. Communication:
Communication is an essential key when it comes to relationship, if you are unable to communicate with your partner, that is a signal that things are not really going to end up well, therefore learn how to communicate if you feel something, or want to talk about something, don't hide it within you, talk to your spouse in a calm and rational way that he or she will like. When they talk to you too, try and listen too and always chip in your own suggestion when necessary.


2. Trust:
Mistrust is one agent that kills relationship, if you don't trust your partner that is a solid yes, that your relationship is or will be in a great mess sooner, lack of trust makes it easier for you to lose your relationship. Think about why you feel jealous, if truly they have given you a reason not to trust them, find a way to address it before you lose it.

3. Understanding:
Just like it rains when its suppose to and sun shines when it ought to, in relationship their are days when you feel grumpy for no particular reason or for a particular reason, often our partner bears the negative result or the chief consequences of that. If it happens to you learn to be understanding instead of being defensive. Acting in such a way that you are perfect, can only mar the situation of getting things done right. Understanding is a great straightener in relationship.


4. Make sure it's worth it:
I would  say, the safest thing to do first is knowing if a relationship is worth it before investing in it. No matter how long you've gone out, or how much you don't want it to split or end up, make sure you sit down and assess whether you are willing to put the effort in for each other by questioning your innermost being.

Try question like, is this something I really want for myself ? If it's truly a yes. That's one of the needed step in knowing how to make your relationship work out. It's all about the two of you making out effort for each other.

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A DELSU Student sexually humiliated

There is allegedly a new form of robbery that has left students of Delta State University, Abraka - popularly known as DELSU, frightened.

According to multiple reports, unknown hoodlums are now stopping girls and snatching their panties at gunpoint for reasons best known to them.

It was also claimed in one of the online reports that some girls are also being forced by the gunmen to urinate in cellophane bags.

The students and residents of Abraka are now calling on the vice-chancellor, state government and security agents to do something about the negative growing trend.

A student of the institution, Maradeam Osuji, took to Facebook earlier today to write;  Please if you have any female in Delsu(Abraka) drop a prayer for her. A girl was forced to pull off her pant at gun point in Abraka. It's no longer stealing of pants, it's now "Your pant or Your life"...

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Plus sized Nollywood actress, Amara Maduka, is gradually becoming one of the most sought after stars in the movie industry, despite her chubbiness.

Revealing to Inside Nollywood, the weirdest place she had had sex, the daring screen diva recalled her adventurous encounter in a pool.

The weirdest place I’ve had sex is in the pool. We were not caught because it was a private pool. It was worth the while, you just have no idea (laughs). In fact, I love adventures, they feed the soul,” she noted.
The Anambra State born thespian, who loves to flaunt her feminine assets, also revealed that she has never been in a serious relationship with any man but enjoys sexual intimacy when needed.

“I’ve never really dated anyone all my life. It’s funny but true. I’m just learning to truly give love a chance now. I’m too sensitive. I thought not dating at all was best to avoid heartbreaks. Well, I’m not saying I’m a virgin oh, I said I didn’t date. I didn’t say I don’t have sex. However, I can stay without sex for as long as I want to. I’m not a freak on sex. But when I get it, I get it real good” she said...  More Info to come later... 😃

58-year-old Lambert Ighodaro, has been captured by the Edo State Police Command for apparently assaulting a 12-year-old pupil in Benin, the state capital.

The suspect's capture came after the casualty's class teacher, who saw her persistent nonappearance from school reached her gatekeepers. It was assembled that amid the teachers' visit to her watchmen's home, the pupil revealed that the suspect had been sexually mishandling her. She likewise included that the Mr.Lambert offered her cash each time he purportedly raped her.

The acting Chairman of the State Universal Basic Education Board, Dr Joan Oviawe, who clarified that the board got an objection from the administration of the school, additionally said the board was likewise exploring two different instances of asserted sexual manhandle of two young ladies matured 11 and eight.

"This (capture) was after SUBEB gotten a report of the episode from the class teacher of the 12-year-old young lady, who is a pupil in one of government's primary schools," she said.

Oviawe, who is likewise the Special Adviser to the Governor on Basic Education, additionally told newsmen that the state government has set up a panel to check the rate of pollution of youngsters in the state, in a restored push to fortify the Child Rights Law to address issues of sexual mishandle of kids.

As per her, SUBEB is worried about the welfare of kids and will keep on assisting casualties of rape to beat the disgrace and guarantee that the culprits are indicted.

"Teachers who were prepared as of late in the Edo Basic Education Sector Transformation program were prepared on approaches to recognize kids who have been mishandled physically and sexually.

"The state government is assessing existing youngster rights law to reinforce it to battle all types of manhandle against kids."

Hardly any weeks back, a 40-year-old man, Abdullahi Umar, was summoned before a Katsina State Magistrates' Court for supposedly assaulting three primary school pupils.

I'm almost certain you have heard a statement like this before "After sex some girls have nothing else to offer" well I am here to reveal to you women some things you can offer in a relationship separated from sex.

1. HUMOR 

No man needs a young lady with no comical inclination, some girls think a relationship is an uneven issue, as long as he is influencing me to snicker and upbeat am alright. Off-base. It ought to likewise be the a different way. A comical inclination is a need throughout everyday life and you ought to appreciate utilizing it to its fullest degree. Try not to get irate over each seemingly insignificant detail figure out how to giggle at yourself now and again.

2. EQUAL CONTRIBUTIONS 

You ought to have the capacity to accommodate your man as much as he accommodates you since he should feel sheltered and cherished too. Endeavor to coordinate his desire, not remain on the sidelines while he does the greater part of the work. No motivation behind why you shouldn't have the capacity to help amid troublesome circumstances, taking him on dates.



3. HUMILITY 

A lady ought to have the humility expected to set aside her own needs and offer support to her man. This can be as little as giving him control over the remote or as large as picking what sort of auto to purchase. Obviously, you would have your inclinations. You will voice your assessments. In any case, general, you know fulfilling your man will eventually help you, and the relationship flourish.


4. SUPPORT 

"Behind each fruitful man, there is a lady"

A man needs someone who has his back. A lady is incredible at this since she falls into the part of boss supporter. Ladies normally energize and support. They tell their men they are completing an extraordinary activity, and that they are great at what they do.

At the point when your man has issues with a collaborator, you ought to have the capacity to enable him to see how to manage it. Give him the additional push he needs to put everything in order. When he succeeds, you celebrate with him.

5. LOYALTY 

You ought to be faithful to your man. Make deceitfulness appalling to you. In the event that you influence a dedication, to ensure you stick to it. Mean what you say and remain faithful to your man regardless of how far away you are.

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In a meeting with Aproko-Gist Reporter, African Duchess who goes by the Instagram handle: african_duchess_supremacy opens up on her view of s*x.

She is a prominent Nigerian woman on the stage who is never terrified to exposed her bends for the world to see.



Read her words below:

I cherish s*x folks don't get me wrong, as a self evident certainty I have gigantic hunger for it. But the way the general public now consider s*x to be something you can purchase on OLX isn't looking ordinary any longer.

No doubt one night stand and so on can be typical for a woman that wouldn't like to get sincerely joined to anybody because of some past and enthusiastic injury yet all the same there ought to act naturally respect, class and poise.

I have dated few folks in my past or let me say fling few folks and we don't talk any longer yet when they slide in my DM they converse with me with deference and mind their discourse this is basically in light of the fact that I situated what we had as something of regard and something we both appreciated and esteemed I didn't low my standard just on the grounds that I delighted in the entire thing yet I made a stamp that gives the comprehension of "Dude we both appreciated this". Indulgence is far various to prostitution or being a lose woman,don't blend them procedure of tossing accompanies conditions for example I have remained aligned for 1 year and a few months yet required s*x and still don't need it to accompany dramatization I should simply interface up with a man that I know he converses with me with deference comprehend that correct now this is nothing genuine this is simply us two develop individuals endeavoring to appreciate the minute . This is far not the same as when I need to spread my legs for cash or make s*x a commitment.

Web-based social networking of late has been frightful with the way it has painted s*x as an ordinary thing, guys it isn't a typical thing it is something you ought to have with sense of pride don't let this reality shows and American life gets to you, if you meet this one talent am meet that one skill am before you go talent father and child with uncle you won't know and Karma will slap you right in the face.



Of late individuals said there is no major ordeal engaging in sexual relations on TV etc,my dear it is a major ordeal in the event that you need to be a porn star be a porn star you can't go on national television get bleeped and later turning out being brand envoy and suspecting that is the goal,what about the objective for the future the record and inheritance you need to keep ?

Let’s be careful about our sex life, have sex Bleep your brain out but please guys let’s do it with respect and dignity.

She said no one is a saint, but she's speaking because the menace is becoming too much as some ladies can't even can't the number of men the having s*x with any more. Her words...

"In as much as I'm not innocent of the act, I still wouldn't hesitate to admit that s*x between two unmarried people all in the name of being in a relationship still remains the number one thing I detest the most.